Question:
I have a stray female cat. She was spayed at the age of six months.She will not come close to me and runs and hides when she sees me coming. When I put her food down and leave the room, she will eat. We had to trap her and take her to the veterinarian for surgery and she's been in our home since then.Please advise if this may be a feral cat, and if her behavior might be modified so she'll accept my family and me.
M.B., Norfolk, Va Jul 17, 2005
Answer:
Your poor cat probably had insufficient human contact early in life, which is necessary to develop a close social bond. But she may still come around.First, keep her in the same room with you as much as possible, with access to another room or quiet corner for her litter box. Don't try to force yourself on her. Purchase a couple of catnip-stuffed toys. Consider adopting a healthy, friendly cat that may well bring her out of her shell. Your veterinarian could also prescribe Valium for two to three weeks -- a small, regular dose could help her overcome her fear and begin to slowly bond with you.